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Breastfeeding Challenge: Nipple Confusion

Babies are born to breastfed

When a baby is latched on properly their nose and chin will touch the breast as they suckle, you should be able to see and hear that they are withdrawing and swallowing breast milk. A baby will have trouble latching on when they have nipple confusion. A baby may become nipple confused when they are fed via the breast and the bottle or if they are given a pacifier for sucking comfort.

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More Solutions for Solving Nipple Confusion and How You Can Prevent It

Normally babies are not born to with nipple confusion, so avoiding it can be done easily by eliminating the things that cause it. Artificial nipples and pacifiers are the main causes of nipple confusing. If your baby has to receive a bottle do to absence of the mother, for instance if the mom works out of the home, make sure that they have establish a good nursing relationship first. If your baby struggles with latching on properly or if they are not a pro at nursing you will want to hold off on introducing the bottle. Thankfully there are many alternatives to a bottle if you need to feed a baby breast milk. A cup or syringe will work fine, although a baby will likely prefer the breast to anything.

In the event that your baby does get nipple confusion there are some things that you can do to get your baby latching on and sucking properly. Offer your baby milk only by breastfeeding, in the event that there will be time that mom will be away from the baby and they must receive expressed breast milk, then feed them using a cup or syringe. Offer breastfeeding not only as food but also as a comfort, make it a special experience so that a baby with nipple confusion finds it as an experience that they will want to happen again. You may find that your baby is more likely to try breastfeeding if there is skin on skin contact or if they are just waking from a nap. If you have a sling carry your baby around in it as much as possible between feedings.

You will know that you baby is latching on properly if they are face towards the breast without having to turn their head, are opening their mouth wide before they clamp down on the breast and that the areola is in their mouth and their chin and nose touch the breast. When you are positioning your baby on the breast give them lots of encouragement, open your mouth to show them and praise them when they latch on and begin to suckle.

Getting a baby nursing correctly will not happen over night and getting over nipple confusion can be something that is very hard on mommy and baby, for this reason it is extremely important to prevent it in the first place. Even one bottle one time can cause nipple confusion if your baby isn't ready for it. In some cases it helps to discuss nipple confusion with a a La Leche League Leader or a lactation consultant to help your baby start latching on properly and suckling effectively.